How to Plan a Celebration of Life: A Practical Checklist

Planning a celebration of life can involve many practical decisions at a difficult time. There is no single format that every family should follow. The purpose of this guide is simply to help organise the main considerations, while leaving space for the family's wishes and traditions.

1. Decide what feels right for the family

Start with the people closest to the person being remembered. Consider whether the gathering should be formal, informal, faith-based, secular, private or open to a wider circle of friends and family.

2. Confirm the date and venue

Choose a date and location that works for the family and expected guests. Consider accessibility, seating, travel, parking and whether refreshments can be provided.

3. Prepare the guest information

Make sure guests have the date, time, location and any relevant information about the gathering. If the event includes a particular dress code, tribute or collection, communicate it clearly.

4. Plan the remembrance elements

Depending on the family, this could include photographs, music, readings, flowers, personal memories, a memory table or a book for messages.

5. Consider memorial keepsakes

Some families choose to offer a small keepsake to guests. Options can include personalised seed envelopes, ribbons, candles, tea favours or keyrings. The right choice is the one that feels appropriate to the person being remembered and the family.

6. Work out quantities

Start with the number of guests expected to receive a keepsake and consider a small number of extras. If each item is personalised, allow time to check names, dates and wording.

7. Check timings

For a fixed service or celebration date, contact suppliers early and provide the date and approximate quantity. Personalised products may require preparation and production time.

8. Keep the day manageable

Ask trusted family members, friends or professionals to help with practical tasks where possible. The family should not have to manage every detail themselves.

A simple checklist

  • ☐ Date and venue confirmed
  • ☐ Guest information shared
  • ☐ Programme or order of service considered
  • ☐ Photos, music or readings organised
  • ☐ Refreshments arranged
  • ☐ Memorial keepsakes chosen if wanted
  • ☐ Quantities confirmed
  • ☐ Personalisation checked
  • ☐ Delivery timing confirmed

If you are looking for remembrance keepsakes, explore Craft Favour' Funeral & Memorial collection. If you need help with quantities or a larger order, contact us and tell us the date and approximate quantity.

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